Meaningful Relationships: Friendships Are Made Of Humor And Shared Sorrow
Meaningful relationships are measured by the depth of the marks they leave behind, shared feelings, how you share good and bad times. It is the wonderful relationships, not measured in years, but in quality.
These are relationships that immediately give us a warm feeling. It doesn’t take a whole day to decipher. We don’t have to look at them twice and they don’t have bad intentions. Meaningful relationships are those that last; they don’t leave us. They don’t judge, they don’t make excuses, and they don’t cause grief. Really, they say things as they are and in just the right way. They support you and help you break down the walls that hurt you.
Nothing is more beautiful than sharing a warm look with someone you really know
You know what we mean. There is nothing more wonderful than the warmth you feel when you share a look with someone who understands you. They have the power to teleport you home, to a rainy night in bed, to an intimate conversation.
We can not handle life and make the world right with just anyone. We do this with a patchwork of friendships, made up of shared laughter. Shared moments that taste like freshly brewed coffee, hours that disappear like magic from the hands of our watch. These are the people who gave us roots, the ones who show us what we sow. Because the best emotions are not for nothing about belonging together and staying in one place.
Sincere love never ends, it’s unconditional
In the evolution of life, the vast majority of adults have learned that there are friendships that end, selfish relationships that do not allow growth. These are fluid relationships without foundation and based on outdated, corrupted interests.
Anyone who has experienced something like this knows that we can count genuine friendships on the fingers of one hand. We all know the feeling of being involved with someone who is self-centered and doesn’t invest in a friendship.
Therefore all beautiful affection is much more than the sum of its parts. It is the confluence of learning, of spoken words, and of sincerity and uplifting confidence. It is all this that makes a person grow.
Because if we had to say there’s one test for meaningful relationships, it’s this: whether you’re a happier person with fewer fears because of them, or whether someone left a fingerprint on your heart.
Meaningful relationships need us, and we need them
We don’t need anyone in our life to treat us like they don’t need us. The feeling that we can rely on the other person and that we can help the person we love is one of the best feelings there is. It is part of the foundation of meaningful relationships.
Temporary relationships are built casually in our lives and don’t stick. However, having someone who knows our minds, our fears, and our demons binds us to life. Because knowing that someone is not afraid to stay with us in spite of everything means to know that he or she loves us, even if we are not always right. It anchors us, helps us understand that mistakes are part of life and not worth getting stuck in.
Therefore, meaningful relationships are the ones that hold us down. They make us understand that life is not as dark as our minds lead us to believe. They give us reasons to be better people. Our fear is cut in half when we share life with them.
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